A Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,
"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river."

The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand."

"What's the difference?'"asked the puzzled father.
"There's a big difference," replied the little girl. 'If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go but if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go.' ♥

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person you love rather than expecting them to hold yours.

This message is too short...... but carries a lot of Feelings.

TRY AND FAIL,BUT DONT FAIL TO TRYY...

Truth of the Failure …..!! Failure doesn’t mean you are a failure……
it does mean you haven’t
succeeded yet.

Failure doesn’t mean you have accomplished nothing…..
it does mean you have learned something.

Failure doesn’t mean you have been a fool……
it does mean you had a lot of faith.

Failure doesn’t mean you have been disgraced……
it does mean you were
willing to try.

Failure doesn’t mean you don’t have it……
it does mean you have to do something in a different way.

Failure doesn’t mean you are inferior……
it does mean you are not
perfect.

Failure doesn’t mean you’ve wasted your life….. it does mean you’ve a
reason to start afresh.

Failure doesn’t mean you should give up……
it does mean you should try harder.

Failure doesn’t mean you’ll never make it……
it does mean it will take a
little longer.

Failure doesn’t mean God has abandoned you……
it does mean God has a
better idea!Life is Big Joke…

So Anticipate & Laugh it Out Loud…

Sometimes in life we feel so blue.
but someone somewhere is not happy as you.

Somewhere far at the border when a soldier sleeps,
missing his loved ones he silently weeps.

Somewhere a mother painfully sighs because,
her new born baby didn't open her eyes.

Somewhere a poor dad silently cries,
when he sees his son begging for a bowl of rice.

Somewhere in an orphanage a little girl is sad,
when she misses her mom and dad.

So at times a reason to smile you may not have any,
say to yourself that you are happier than many...

'Cuz life is beautiful and its not always blue,
and someone somewhere is not as happy as You'...!!

"If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." 

-Dr. Wayne Dyer

THE LAW OF THE SEED

Take a look at an apple tree. There might be five hundred apples on the tree, but each apple has just ten seeds.

That's a lot of seeds!

We might ask, "Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more apple trees?"

Nature has something to teach us here. It's telling us: "Not all seeds grow. In life, most seeds never grow. So if you really want to make something happen, you better try more than once."

This might mean:

You'll attend twenty interviews to get one job.

You'll interview forty people to find one good employee. 

You'll talk to fifty people to sell one house, one car, one vacuum cleaner, one insurance policy, or a business idea. 

And you might meet a hundred acquaintances just to find one special friend.

When we understand the "Law of the Seed", we don't get so disappointed. We stop feeling like victims. We learn how to deal with things that happen to us. Laws of nature are not things to take personally. We just need to understand them - and work with them.

Successful people fail more often.
But they plant more seeds. When Things Are Beyond your control, here's something that you must NOT DO so as to be happy: 

>>You must not decide how you think the world SHOULD be.
>>You must not make rules for how everyone SHOULD behave.

Many times, such thoughts can bring you spiralling down into more unhappiness. On the other hand, let's say you expect that:

Friends SHOULD return favours.
People SHOULD appreciate you.
Planes SHOULD arrive on time.
Everyone SHOULD be honest.
Your husband or best friend SHOULD remember your birthday.

These expectations may sound reasonable. But often, these things won't happen! So you end up frustrated and disappointed.

There's a better strategy. Demand less, and instead, have preferences! For things that are beyond your control, tell yourself:

"I WOULD PREFER "A", BUT IF "B" HAPPENS, IT'S OK TOO!"

You prefer that people are polite.. but when they are rude, it doesn't ruin your day.
You prefer sunshine.. but if it rains, it is ok too!

To become happier, we either need to:
a) Change the world, or
b) Change our thinking.

And It is easier to change our Thinking!

IN A NUTSHELL

It is not the problem that is the issue, but rather it is your attitude attending to the problem that is the problem.
"Your problem is not your problem, its your reaction towards the problem that's the problem"

It's not what happens to you that determine your happiness but rather how you think about what happens to you !

Have stress free n awesome Weekend.. :).!

“I believe that you’re great, that there’s something magnificent about you. Regardless of what has happened to you in your life. Regardless of how young or old you think you might be. The moment you begin to ‘think properly,’ this something that’s within you, this power within you that’s greater than the world, it will begin to emerge. It will take over your life. It will feed you. It will clothe you. It will guide you, protect you, direct you, sustain your very existence. If you let it. Now that is what I know, for sure.”

Michael Beckwith